Small Moves Add Up
There's no single trick that makes closing costs disappear, but several smaller steps can save real money. This guide is part of my overview of buyer closing costs in Virginia.
Compare Loan Estimates
Every lender must give you a standardized Loan Estimate, which makes comparison easier. Look at lender fees, points, the rate and the total cash to close side by side. The same loan can be priced quite differently from one lender to another.
Local lenders often bring strong service and know the area's title companies and appraisers, which helps avoid costly delays. My guide to the best FHA lenders in Hampton Roads explains why local often wins, whatever loan type you choose.
Ask the Seller to Contribute
Seller concessions are common here, especially on VA and FHA purchases. My guide to seller concessions and lender credits explains how they work, the limits and when asking makes sense.
Consider a Lender Credit, Carefully
Accepting a slightly higher rate in exchange for a lender credit lowers upfront cost but raises your payment. It can make sense if you're short on cash or don't expect to keep the loan long. Run both options through my mortgage calculator to see the difference.
Look Into Assistance Programs
Virginia Housing and some local programs offer down payment or closing cost assistance for eligible buyers. My guide to closing cost assistance in Virginia covers where to look, and my overview of Virginia home loan programs compares the main loan options.
Shop What You're Allowed to Shop
Your Loan Estimate lists some services you can choose yourself, such as certain title or settlement services. Comparing them can save money, though the cheapest option isn't always the best if it slows down closing.
Homeowners insurance is another place to compare. In coastal Hampton Roads, premiums and flood coverage can vary a lot between carriers, and the first year is typically paid at closing.
Time Your Closing Date
Because prepaid interest runs from closing to the end of that month, closing later in the month generally means less prepaid interest due at settlement. It doesn't change the total cost of the loan much, but it can lower your cash at closing. Your lender can show the difference.
Roll Certain Costs Into the Loan
Some program fees, like the VA funding fee and FHA upfront mortgage insurance, can typically be financed into the loan rather than paid in cash. That lowers what you bring to closing but increases what you borrow. My VA vs. FHA comparison covers both.
Protect Your Approval
Avoid new credit, big purchases or job changes before closing. A drop in your credit or a change in debt can raise your rate or costs. My guide on how much mortgage you'll be approved for explains why debt matters, and my home affordability calculator helps you stay within budget.
Let's Find Your Savings
I'm not a lender, but I work with several trusted local lenders and can connect you with one who'll walk you through every option. As your buyer's agent, I'll negotiate on your behalf. Contact me to get started.
This article is general information, not legal or financial advice. Closing costs vary by loan, lender, price and contract, so get exact figures from your lender's Loan Estimate and your title company or closing attorney.
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